Friday, 19 May 2017

Let them choose what your kid want

If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don’t let them choose what they want. 
Parents always under estimate the likes & dislikes of their kids because they think their kids still don’t have the capacity to choose the things for themselves. Parents, therefore, choose, select and opt everything on what they think right and suitable for the children. Well this thing is not always right.

My dear Muma Papa, please respect your kids’ volition. Give them the space to choose for themselves be it anything because in a way you are laying a strong a foundation for your little munchkin. As in, it will further help your kid in mere future to take any decision wisely. If you will always abide your kid’s choice you might inculcate in him the habit of stealing. They might start stealing the things because they will feel something is missing in their lives. What’s missing may be love or attention to their choices… Just because all the times you said them a “BIG NO” for their choices… So they start stealing as a way to deal with the situation.  But stealing won’t fix what’s missing...read more